8 Foolproof Ways to Woo Your Spouse or Significant Other

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8 Foolproof Ways to Woo Your Spouse or Significant Other

Relationships are one of the truest ways to feel fulfilled in this life. When you find somebody who makes you feel whole, you don’t want to let them go. Without your other half, you can feel incomplete. And we wouldn’t want that!

Though relationships are wonderful, no one ever said they would be easy. Even for the happiest couples, there are ups and downs and times of uncertainty. However, the strongest relationships are those that put romance at the forefront. Sometimes, the ho-hum of life can put a downer on your relationship, but it doesn’t have to stay that way! Relationships take effort from day one all the way to the end, so if you’ve noticed your relationship has gotten a little lackluster, it’s time to put in a little work.

You know the saying—happy wife, happy life. Well, the same goes for your husband or boyfriend or girlfriend. To woo your spouse or partner any day, any time, there are some wonderful ways you can do that. Below are our favorite ways to woo your spouse or significant other—just be sure to add your own spin to make sure your gesture is as personal and heartfelt as possible.

1. Pay Attention to Details

This is probably one of the simplest things you can do to reignite the flame in your relationship. Many times, rocky relationships are the result of miscommunication or a general lack of communication. Start listening to when your S.O. says he or she really loves something. It could be a specific restaurant, a favorite type of flower, or even something you do. When you pay attention to the things they vocalize, and then act on them, you show them you care much more than they thought. These little things can make a huge difference.

2. Treat Him/Her to a Sexy Night

Need to turn up the heat in your relationship? Woo your spouse or S.O. with some sexy unmentionables and a playful night in. Perhaps you two have been toying with the idea of role-playing, or maybe you just want to show off a new lingerie set you know he or she will go crazy over. There are a lot of ways to treat your lover to a sexy night in—just remember your partner’s preferences when crafting the evening of seduction.

8 Foolproof Ways to Woo Your Spouse or Significant Other

3. Get Wordy

Few acts of romance are more charming than a handwritten letter. This nostalgic act of love is not a bygone practice—in fact, in today’s digital world, a handwritten love letter will speak volumes more than a digitized text. Articulating your feelings into words can be hard for some, so consider looking at love quotes and songs for some inspiration. It doesn’t have to be profound; it just has to be honest and thoughtful.

4. Plan a Date Night

Life gets messy and busy. Sometimes, romance simply isn’t accounted for in your daily routine. Change that. Take the initiative to plan a detailed date night from start to finish, and tell your partner all he or she needs to do is get dressed and show up. A date night may sound simple, but when you plan the whole thing yourself, it sends an extra special message to your lover.

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5. Show Your Love in Pictures

Every vacation you’ve been on, every monumental life event, and every sweet in-between moment—if you’ve got photos, flaunt them. You can easily print out images from your smartphone these days by visiting a CVS or similar photo service. Print out a few of your favorites, add them to frames, and set them up around your shared home. You don’t even have to point them out immediately—when your partner notices, he or she will let you know in their own, appreciative way.


6. Learn His/Her Love Language

The 1995 book by Gary Chapman, “The Five Love Languages,” remains timely even today. Read up on these five love languages and learn the way your partner receives and gives love. Once you understand their love language, you can then use it every day to show your affection. If you’ve never heard of the love languages before, or you haven’t tried them yet, you may be pleasantly surprised at the results!

8 Foolproof Ways to Woo Your Spouse or Significant Other

7. Surprise with a Romantic Getaway

Who doesn’t love being whisked away to a surprise destination? Sweep your love off their feet with a surprise getaway to a place he or she has been dying to go. Perhaps it’s a gift, or perhaps it’s an out-of-the-blue, just-because-I-love-you trip. Either way, as long as it’s a surprise, there’s no doubt your partner will be all over you beginning from the moment you leave. To kick it up a notch, consider buying him or her a sexy piece of lingerie to announce the trip. You can also book a surprise romantic activity for when you arrive as well.

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8. Stay in Bed

Sometimes, the best thing to do is nothing at all. On a weekend morning you have nothing to do, opt to lay in bed a while longer and enjoy each other in the simplest moment. Maybe even make breakfast and bring it back to bed. There’s something so sweet and sexy about laying in bed too long. Plus, it usually leads to one thing or another.

There are so many ways you can woo your spouse or S.O. to keep the magic alive in your relationship. Hopefully, these ideas gave you some inspiration for making your special someone feel even more special. If you ever need sexy lingerie or sexy outfits to make the romance even hotter, you can find affordable lingerie options here.

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Jennifer Tiemeyer

Jennifer Tiemeyer is a multi-faceted social media director with over 10 years’ experience at Lingerie Diva. Jennifer is passionate for lingerie and helping people find the perfect pieces to complement their inner beauty.

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